the dreaded capital 'C'

Okay guys and gals... i know this is too teeny weeny small to read the article is all about and nope,i'm not asking you to spoil your eyesight. but focus on the title of the article: 5 reasons he wont Commit YET. this article would mostly be applicable to guys only as i think i have yet come across any gals who are afraid of committment. well i think there might be some ladies out there, still looking around and not wanting to commit unless 'He' is the one for her. i wont talk about those gals. i will talk about myself since this is my blog.

oh yes,i used to be falling head over heals in love with Linus*. i had this hunch that 'He' is the one that i wanna spend the rest of my life with. i thought i would be the one for him too. though i never heard a second time(just one time only but i'm not sure if was it my hallucination or not) that i was his 'gf' or was ever introduced to anyone that i was his 'gf'. so if calling 'huney' was one of a tell tale sign that i was his 'gf', then i would have something to worry now. because the 'huney' phenomenon has become HISTORY. so since its history then i wont dig up the past anymore. i'm looking forward into the future:

1. a standby group of 'options' as what my good sister has recommended should there be no hopes coming from Linus*.

2. a miracle that Linus* would still be the same old huney i first met. which is why i call it a miracle, and since only God can perform miracles. (;

and so back to the article. to summarise, it was saying that guys are actually thinking :

1)that if they were to commit, they would be doomed. yeah, doom because they think that it would close all doors from other 'openings or invitations'.

2) guys have aplenty of time at the back of their hands to wait and wait, then the cleverest thing is also to make you wait, not knowing that your 'system' doesnt wait for you.

3) guys want the best for you, so he's still saving for the big day. if they cant deliver what you wished for, they would rather save more. just in case.

4) they were terribly 'burnt and hurt' before. so their healing process takes longer than women, which explains why they would still want to wait for a little while.

5) they are not sure if you are the one and yet they are so shy to tell you in the face because they can't bear to hurt you. so time drags again. and the editor said that afterall, the guy was really a coward.

hmmm... what say you? any guys unhappy with what the article says?

And i stumbled upon these few quotes from the internet. amazingly, they were from the questions and answers page of this website :

a.True love is never afraid of venturing into a committment.

b.Love without loyalty is merely infatuation, if not flirtation.

c.Love transcends all boundaries.

I am now convinced that i have fulfilled all the above:

i. im not worried of committments so of course my love for him* is true.

ii. since i'm committed, of course there's loyalty. (cannot apply multi-tasking here,because in relationships, its a theology of 'one-at-a-time')

iii. i've crossed so many boundaries. even without the help of his moral support but only from God.

so after going through the quotes, do you think you have what it takes to be a good partner to your other half? this blogger has lots to say. view his article if you have the time.

and do share if you have thoughts especially JoeBloggs or probably nawooz...