Guess what,i have spilled the beans to him.i wasnt sure what i did was right but at least i got it off my chest.i dont know about you guys,but when i hear such 'news', i simply cant function properly.when i say i cant function properly,it means i think about it 24/7.i kept it away from him for two days and in the end,i couldnt take it anymore.
Though i didnt have the opportunity to clarify what i heard about him,but there was some consolation that the 'news' was not 100% accurate.i didnt tell him everything because he said he didnt want to hear what was said about him.and i think that's a very cool and positive attitude to adopt when it comes to knowing or hearing bad stuff about what other people have been spreading with their tongues.curiousity kills the cat.if such things were to happen on me,i would be so anxious to find out.maybe i should learn a few survival skills from him.
its amazing how people can fabricate tales like that of another person.and i guess the root of evil stems either from envy or jealousy developed towards that particular person. i wont deny that at times i do experience a tinge of jealously or envy towards another individual but that is only to spur me to do better and not to talk bad about that person.
from a religious viewpoint, we need to eradicate jealously,envy or suspicion towards others. i'm not sure how little will do good to mankind but if you can't suppress that feeling, then it will be bad because from time to time, it keeps growing in your heart and then it will obstruct your natural inborne disposition to be good, do good and think good.
Do you guys or gals have any bad experience of having to hear what other people have been speaking behind your back?and how do you deal with that deadly act of speech?
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